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My Mother’s Desk

I’m sitting at my mother’s desk, a mahogany secretary with a writing leaf that fold down to reveal rows of cubbyholes and tiny drawers –even a sliding secret compartment.I’ve loved it since I was just tall enough to see above the leaf as Mother sat doing letters.Standing by her chair, staring at the ink bottle, pens and smooth white paper, I decided that the act of writing must be the most delightful thing in the word.Years late, during her final illne, Mother reserved various items for my sister and brother.“But the desk,” she’d repeat, “is for Elizabeth.” I sensed Mother communicating with this gift, a communication I’d craved for 50 years.My mother was brought up in the Victorian belief that emotions were private.Nice people said only nice things.I never saw her angry , never saw her cry.I knew she loved me;she expreed it in action.But as a ten-ager I yearn for heart-to-heart talks between mother and daughter.They never happened.And a gulf opened between us.I was “too emotional”.She lived “on the surface”.She was willing to accept the relationship on these terms.I was not.As years paed and I raised my own family, I loved equilibrium Mother’s visits brought to our home, her sense of humor, the way she sat at the piano and filled the house with music.but still I kept trying to draw from her what she could not give, a sharing of the deep places of her heart.At last I ser my feeling down on paper.Only one page, the letter took all day to write.I told Mother loved her and thanked her for our harmonious home.Forgive me , I wrote, for having been critical.In careful words, I asked her to let me know in any way she chose that she did forgive me.I mailed the letter and waited eagerly for her reply.None came.Eagerne turned to disappointment, the resignation and finally, peace.I couldn’t be sure that the latter had even gotten to Mother.I only knew that having written it, I could stop trying to make her into someone she was not.For the last 15 years of her life we enjoyed a relationship on her terms –light, affectionate , cheerful.Now the gift of her desk told me , as she’d never able to.Thai she was pleased the writing was my chosen work.When at last I bought the desk down , it was dusty from months of storage.Lovingly , I polished drawers and cubbyholes.Pulling out the secret compartment, I found papers inside.A photograph of my father.Family wedding announcements.And a one-page letter, folded and refolded many times.Send me a reply, my letter asks, in any way you choose.Mother, you always chose the act that speaks louder than words.