十六岁生日的信_致儿子十岁生日的信

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Sixteenth Birthday Letter A moving letter from my Mom that I received on my 16 th birthday.Dear Daughter, Sixteen years ago you came into my life and changed it so totally that I cannot image it without you.You fill my days with every emotion from plrasure and pride to anger and impatience.But most of all, you fill each day with your presence, when you are away, you are in my brain and heart.It is so hard to watch you grow up, but I feel you are doing a very good job of it.Each year I have seen you change and you are showing all the characteristics and character of a fine young woman.People always tell me how charming and funny you are, how wonderful you look and how interesting you are to talk to – I am glad to hear these compliments – but I can see them for myself.There are many minutes, hours, days, when you are a very diffcult teenager to live with – but that is to be expected.Your emotions are always “up front”, both the good and the bad.They always will be.That is who you are.You have a wonderful quality of independence that I value and respect.I cannot image myself at 16 ever going to Dominica alone – yet I can’t imagine you not going.You are an astounding and confusing mix of willingne to try new things and fear of failing at the every day parts of life.That will change with maturity as you see yourself suucceed and learn to trust yourself.You will make mistakes, fail at things, hurt yourself in a multitude of ways, everyone does, but the power to achieve is in every fiber of you and the will to get what you want will push you pa the fear of rejection and failure.I have never been a risk taker and it has limited me in ways you probably cannot see.You must be willing to take risks – the pain of failing paes quicker than the regret of not trying.Every year you get stronger emotionally as well as physically – who else can power a home run like you can – and I hope you see a little bit more of the wonderful qualities that those of us who love you have seen since you were a baby.When you were in kindergarten you “adopted” a little boy who didn’t quite fit in.His name was Jeffrey and he was slower than the rest of the children who had awkward ways about him.You were his friend in cla;you stopped to help him and to talk to him and made his life happier because he could count on you to never ridicule him.Your teacher, Mrs.Betty, who adored you, told me about this and said that she saw that you would always be a person with a good heart, a quality she valued above all.Eventually we all learn to read and write and drive and cook and hold a job, but we cannot “learn” a good heart.When I was growing up 16, I had a special birthday – “Sweet Sixteen”.Here in Rochester, it is the time when everyone goes to get a driver’s permit.I suppose that driving is a mark of growing up in the suburbs in 1999(it is your first real ticket to independence), just as a “Sweet 16” corsage with 16 sugar cubes(how tacky now that think of it)was the mark of paage towards adulthood in my time since the subway provided independence long before 16 and few of us drove until later in life.Why is 16 more special then 15 or 17 – I don’t know.Perhaps it is the best time to stop and ae – look back to where you are – before plunging forward into adlthood, with all of its challenges and responsibilities.It is a time when parents can still try to protect the child in you since you are still permitted to act like a Child, but you can safely aert your independ ence – parents still love their most obnoxious teenagers.So today is special, and you are special.Not just because you are my daughter, but because you are a unique individual and one that I respect and enjoy being with.It gives me great pleasure to know that you love music and photography.And you have a very “good eye” not just in softball, but also in the visual arts that like so much.And you have taste, lots of it.And you are tenacious when you want something and you use words so well.And lately I see your writing as having a very strong quality of emotion and feeling.And as a young person you have figured out how to talk to perple – almost instinctive in your “people skills”.All these qualitis are sometimes coverd over by anger and shouting and frustration and impulse, but as you mature you will get more control and channel those intense emotions more productively.This is a natural proce too, just like thinking your parents are godlike, then morons, then boring, then wise.So take this day and reflect and the go forward.Make this a better place for yourself and those who love you.And we always will.Love,Mom

十六岁生日的信

16岁生日那天,我收到了母亲下面这封感人至深的信。亲爱的女儿:

十六年前,你来到了我的世界,一切都因你而改变,如果没有你,我的生活简直无法想象。是你,让我的生活充满了欢乐与自豪;也是你,曾让我生气和急躁。但最重要的是,你的存在占据了我的每一天,你不在我身边的时候,我满脑子全是你的身影,心里想着的全是你。

抚养你长大是很艰难的,但是你一直都很乖。我看着你一年一年地变化,慢慢地展现出你的个性,展现出一个优秀年轻女性的品质,人们都说你讨人喜欢、活泼风趣,而且大方、美丽、健谈——我是多么高兴吸到这些赞美你的话——当然我自己也发现了你的这些优点。不过也有很多时候,你是个难缠的小家伙——我这也是意料之中的事。你的情绪老爱走“极端”,不是兴致昂然就是糟糕透顶。一直是这样,大概那个样子才是你吧。

你有很强的独立性,这一点让我很欣赏,也尽量尊重你的这种个性。我不能想象自己16岁时曾孤身支多米尼加——而我更无法想象你不会去那儿独自旅行。你总是对新鲜事物跃跃欲试,每天又会为人生中第一步的成败与否提心吊胆,真让人又惊讶又慌乱啊!不过随着你慢慢成熟起来,这些都会改变的,你将看到自己的成功,并学会自信。以后的人生道路上,你可能会犯错,可能会失败,可能会以各种方式伤害到你自己,这是每个人都会经历的。但是你的血脉里将充满着实现目标的力量,急于获得成功的愿望会让你克服那些遭受拒绝和搊失败的恐惧。我向来不是一个敢于冒险的人,这多少阻碍了我前进的门道路,但你看来不会这样。你必须乐意去冒险——失败的痛苦会很快过去,但从未尝试的遗憾却可能是一辈子的。

你一年年长大,身体越来越强壮,思想也越来越成熟——想想看,除了你,可没有人可以这样控制一个家庭的运转——从婴儿开始,我们已经看着你具备越来越多的优点,不过我还是希望你能够具备更多的优点。记得你上幼稚园那会儿, 你 “收养”了一个小男孩,他一还不太适应幼稚园的环境。他名叫杰佛里,动作比较慢,因此其他孩子都欺负他。在班上,你是他的好朋友,你会去帮助他,和他说话。有了你,他的生活充满了阳光,因为他能依靠你,你永远都不会嘲笑他。你的老师贝蒂非常喜欢你,是她告诉我这些事情的;她还说,你一直都是一个好心肠的人,她最欣赏你的这种品质了。人们最终都将学会读书写字开车做饭,都将找到一份工作,但是“一副好的心肠“却是学不来的。

我16岁的时候,过了一个特别的生日——“甜蜜16岁“。在罗彻斯特,16岁是可以拿驾照的年龄。我认为,1999年在市郊,开车可是长大的象征(这是你第一张真正的独立证明书),就像是在我们那个年代,胸花上戴有十六粒小方糖(现在起来可真俗)就是作为成人的通行证。虽然早在16岁前地铁已经使我们可以独立穿行,我们当中大多数人也都是到后来才开始开车的。为什么16岁这么特殊,而不是15岁,也不是17岁——我也不知道。可能是16岁是一个停下来想想的最好时间——回头看看你是从哪里来,看看你曾经是怎样一个人,现在你又是怎样一个人——在即将进入成年人行列以前可以好好想想,这带着一定的挑战和责任。在这个年龄,父母仍然会把你当成小孩子一样保护,因为你还可以像个小孩子一样,当然你也完全可以宣布独立——孩子们再不听话,父母都是会爱他们。

那么,今天就是这个特别的日子了,你就是这个特别的人。不仅因为你是我的女儿,还因为你是一个我引以为豪的人,我喜欢跟你待在一起。你喜欢音乐和摄影,我为些而感到高兴。你不仅懂得欣赏垒球,在视觉艺术方面眼力也不赖。可以说,你在很多方面都很有品位。当你想得到什么时,你真可真谓不屈不饶巧舌如簧。后来我发现你的作文也是慷慨激昂。作为一个年轻人,你知晓如何与人交谈——似乎天生就有“人际交流能力“。不过,所有这些好的性格有时被你的生气吵闹挫折和冲动掩盖了,等你成熟一些的时候,你会知道如何更好地控制自己的情绪,而且会更有效地舒解自己那些激烈的情绪。这是一个很自然的过程,就好像最初会把父母当作圣人,后来又觉得他们是蠢人讨厌的人,最后还是会认为他们是聪明人一样。

好吧,现在你好好想想吧,然后继续前进。为了你自己和那些爱你的人,让这里变得更美好,我们一直期待着。

爱你的妈妈

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