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The declining family of the age and the reasons

Today, with the development of high technology, the rhythm of life become more and more fast, meanwhile，the living environment improve much more quickly.Whereas many different kinds of social problems are came forth, especially the problem of family declining.In the last decade, the rate of family declining is rising quickly, moreover the amount of people choose a new life style rather than the traditional life.From the research we may found three main reasons include high divorce rate, life preure and different family values, all the reasons are due to the occurrence.To begin with，divorce rate keep increasing during a long time and can be predicted that it will reach a higher level in the near future.A report which iued by one of the social science report said the divorce rate has been on the rise since 2002 in China.“And make a calculation that almost 1.785 million couples divorced in 2005 which is 120,000 more than the previous year, then leading to a divorce rate of 2.73 per thousand.“(Xinhua, 2006)From the result of the report, it is easy to realize that even in the traditional country which are discriminating of the single family is still can not reduce the divorce rate , not to mention the opening countries.Divorce is seems to be a vicious circle.for instance, a young couple divorced while leaving a child alone, then this child may spend those time when others stay with their family happily to attending party drinking and smoking.Instead of learning how to hold a family from their parents, he may probably break up a family when he is adult, after led his children to have the same style of life like him.Here are some statistical data from

PAUL C.VITZ’s research.The research said that“ There has been a large increase in the U.S.divorce rate, which accelerated in the 1960's and peaked in 1981;it has leveled off in the last decade and even slightly declined.In 1970, 4% of the total adult population was divorced, but by 1992 11% were divorced — a 266% increase in 22 years.Today it is commonly recognized that roughly 50% of marriages end in divorce.This high U.S.divorce rate has meant that for well over 20 years approximately one million American children per year have been involved in divorce.”(Paul C, 1999)From the data ,it is clearly to realize that divorce rate rise up too fast than before, thereby we can predicate that divorcing a family would become a common thing just like washing face or having dinner in the near future.In spite of the high quality of people’s lives, the preure to maintain the standard of life is heavier than the past.Because of the overpopulation and the crisis of economic, the rate of unemployment rise quickly which bring the preure of life.Inflation result in the high commodity price, then the high commodity price can not be afforded by those unemployment people, either responsible for the increase stre of the persons who merely do some low-income jobs.Those economic iues bring a great deal of social problems at last directly make a negative effect in family constitution.It is seems too difficult to establish a family with seriousne preure include in people’s lives.Life preure led to psychological problems which contain psycho mania anxiety neurosis and infantile autism.Can not trust each other is extremely ordinarine in communication of daily lives.Therefore multiply the number of bachelordom.From the research of the excellent sociologist, we know that many men

and women without children are negatively affected too.For example, if a couple have only one or two children, they need to know what the baby like, how to feed the baby and how to teach the baby.Because of those questions, they have to consult their parents, their neighbor, the expert or the doctor.During this time, not only they can earn more happine but also can gain more experiences of how to make a good relationship with others.Such things are much poible make a positive effect to their job.Furthermore a good performance and a good attitude release life preure of the working adult.However, if the couple has more than three children that the cost of maintaining a household is much higher than other couples who do not have so many children.Thus, the more children bring out more negative effect to the couple besides lead to more life preure but not release.From this side the changing of family member influence life preure which at last affect the number of family’s member.Besides, different family values between the elderly and the youth also result in the family declining.“Family value is a political and social concept used in various cultures to describe values that are believed to be traditional in that culture and in support of the idea that nuclear families are the basic units of culture.”(Wiki, 2008)In the past year, people take more care about the family.now the younger pay more attention to themselves instead of concern about their family members.By the influence of popular music teleplay and movie, teenagers conflict with their parents and enjoy the individual life except the traditional one.They like freedom, moreover consider that family has restriction only.Younger really deem it obligation is too heavy to be aumed;thereby they do not want to devote themselves to stand up for

the security and stabilization of family.During their school life, no one have ever told them how to keep a family or why have to hold up a family, thus they have le concept of fireside.the sense of worth which disregard hearthside that is consolidate by the profeional education，meanwhile weaken the family value.In Judith Wallenstein’s research, it is easily to find that “more than half of the children who grown up in a single family entered adulthood as worried, underachieving, self-deprecating, and sometimes angry young male and female.Boys had a harder time over the years than girls, suffering in school achievements, the same age relationships and the controlling of aggreion, this disparity in overall adjustment eventually diipated.This sudden shock a sleeper effect, led to many maladaptive pathways, including multiple relationships and impulsive marriages that ended in early divorce.”(Vita, 1999)This research gives us strange evidence that family value can make a huge influence of children.There are still have some small reasons lead to the declining family.High education women have received, thus more working opportunity they have earned.With no demand of being feed by men, women do not have to marry a man for maintaining her future life.Women are allowed to make a decision that do not need care more about the survival requirements in their own mind.So that more and more women choose to be a succeful person in their busine besides abandon their family lives.The media make a large influence of life style changing either.In the movie, teleplay and some other program, it is shows that the single life is much comfortable than a big family life.In a single life people have freedom and can easily to do the things just for

themselves without concerning to someone’s mood.Nowadays the single life is in conformity with the sense of worth.Therefore, the women's liberation movement and the media influence also affect the people to choose a single life in stead of constituting a whole family.Finally both of the reasons above cause the reducing of family’s quantity.In conclusion, the family decline lead to many problems which are harmful to our social life, so the people all over the world have the duty to reduce the rate of family decline.Especially the teenagers should be required to earn more knowledge of family consolidation, in order to control the rate of divorce in the near future.The government is supposed to make political projects to construct the social security system，in order that people can release from life preure.Although the whole world realize the crisis of family decline clearly beside have done amount of things to ameliorate the human habitat，there is still a long distance for people totally enjoy the domesticity

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