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WHAT EVERY BODY IS SAYING This is a world where what we say is all important.We pay attention to the word people's speak.But are we getting all the meage? Research had shown just 7 percent of human communication is through the actual words.93 percent of what we communicate with other is non-verbal.So, it's our tone of voice, our pitch, our posture, micro expreion on our face and different gesture that we might use.we put on a significant on 7 percent for words.But we shouldn't really be doing that.Beyond the words, lies a fascinating world of non-verbal communication, the secret world of body language.When you can read body language, every moment you spend with others, you can make it valuable.And if you are in busine, you can make it profitable.So, body language is very important to our life.Some of us can read it naturally but some of us can’t.Fortunately, with a little extra practice, you can learn to read body language, and with enough practice it'll become your second nature.Step1、Be aware of distance.Lean towards：People lean towards each other when there is high comfort and agreement.So, when you see this gesture in a conversation, it means that your friends is interested in your topic you can move on.Lean away: People lean away from each other subconsciously when they disagree or feel uncomfortable around each other.So, when you see this gesture in a conversation, it’s time to change you topic.And besides this, you should also pay attention to how close someone is to you.The closer they are, the more friendly they are.If you move slightly closer to them, they move slightly further away, Well, that means they don't want you to be any more personal than it already is.If they don't move further away, then they are receptive.And if they respond by getting even closer to you, they probably really like you or are very comfortable around you.Step2、Be aware of pacifying behaviors: We can look for pacifying behaviors in people.Because it can tell us when they are reacting negatively to something we have done or said.If they show pacify behaviors in a conversation, well, that means something uncomfortable has happened between you and your friends, you should pay attention to than.Pacifying behaviors take many forms.When streed, we might behaviors like this: block our eyes, cover the neck dimple[dimpl], rub our forehead, touch our neck, touch our cheek, exhale deeply, adjust our ties, maage ['mæsɑ:ʒ]our carotid [kə'rɔtid] artery['ɑ:təri](颈动脉), Ventilating ['ventileitiŋ](通气)of the neck area, bit our nail, touch our jaw, frict our hands, lick our tongue, and touch our neck again.If a streed person is a smoker, he or she will smoke more;if the person chews gum, he or she will chew faster.These behaviors are done automatically and subconsciously, that means without think.So at most of the time ,it is more reliable than words.Our brains send out the meage, “Please pacify me now,” and our hands respond immediately, providing an action that will help make us comfortable again.step3、See if they're mirroring ['mirə] you.Mirroring is another common gesture.If someone mirrors your appearance, this is a very real sign that they are interested in you and trying to establish a good relationship with you.Try changing your body position here and there.If you find that they change theirs similarly, they are mirroring.step4、Watch their feet and legs: Happy Feet: When the toes point upward as in this picture, it usually means the person is in a good mood or is thinking or hearing something positive.High Comfort feet: We normally cro our legs when we feel comfortable.The sudden appear of someone we don’t like will cause us to uncro our legs.Shift Direction feet: When one foot points and turns away during a conversation, this is a sign the person has to leave, in that direction.step5、Check their arms and hands.Croed arms：A sudden croing of the arms during a conversation could indicate discomfort.Of course some people just cro their arms as a habit.Yet, it still may indicate that the person is trying to hide something, such as their weight.In public, many of us comfortably cro our arms while waiting or listening to a speaker.However, at home or at our friends’ home, we rarely behave this way unle something is bothering us.Croed arms with hands tightly gripping the arms is definitely an indication of discomfort.Steepling hands: fingertip to fingertip, is one of the most powerful displays of confidence we poe.“regal stance”: Sometimes called the “regal stance,” arms behind the back mean “don’t draw near.” You see royalty using this behavior to keep people at a distance.Arms akimbo [ə'kimbəu] is a powerful display that can be used to establish dominance.On the other hand, Hand-wringing(紧握)is a universal way of showing we are streed or concerned.step6、Check their faces----Microexpreions.The human face of can make over 50,000 different expreions, but it all come down to only 7 different combination that form the expreions we all know: Happine, Sadne, Anger, Disgust, Fear, Surprise and Contempt.These are called micro-expreions and last le than a second on our faces.1、Happine.We all know that when someone smiles they are happy.But it isn't to difficult to “fake” being happy.This can occur when someone is saying something you don't agree with or don't like and you pretend to think its funny or good.Then how to distinguish a fake smile to a real one? In true happine you will see the corners of the lips turn up and the cheeks will raise slightly.But the sign of true happine are the crow's-feet that appear at the corners of the eyes.If you don't see movement from the muscles around the eyes or crows-feet, the smile is a fake.2、Sadne.Most of us can tell when someone is feeling a bit blue.But there are times when it's very important to know someone is truly sad, even if they swear that they are fine.Many people who really want to suicide will appear very happy just before they carry out their plan.But you can always catch that clue of sorrow behind their happine.In sadne the upper eyelids and outer edges of eyebrows will droop.very little focus will appear in their eyes.Also, the corners of the lips will be pulled slightly down.3、Anger.Anger is usually pretty easy to spot.But sometimes there lies anger hidden beneath the surface and it good to be able to spot this, incase someone is about ready to bite you.Anger's microexpreion consists of the lips being narrowed and preed together tightly.You will also see the eyebrows slanted down and towards the nose.And perhaps the most revealing characteristic of anger: glaring.eyes will glare intensely.4、Contempt.Contempt is the easiest to spot.Interestingly, it is the only one that is biased to one side of the face.All other microexpreions are equally distributed acro the face about a center-line.On personal tip, if you see this microexpreion in your girlfriend’s or boyfriend’s face you relationship is coming to an end, trust me.The most obvious sign of contempt is the raising of one side of the lips.Occasionally the lip raise is accompanied with the head lean back slightly so that the we can look down slightly at the focus of their contempt.5、Disgust.This is another one of those indicators that someone does not like what you are talking about, or very much disagrees with something you have done or believe.Disgust is characterized by the upper lip being raised generally exposing the teeth.This will be coupled with a wrinkling of the nose.6、Fear.Fear is feeling we all know.Whether someone makes us uneasy, we are in a situation we don't like, or we are watching a scary movie, we show the expreion for fear.In fear you will see the lips stretched horizontally towards the ears.The lower eyelids will be tensed and the upper eyelids will be raised.You will also notice the eyebrows being raised and pushed together.7、Surprise.This is a very important micro-expreion.It can be used to help in the lie detection proce.If you accuse someone of something, and they seem surprised, it could be that your accusation is incorrect.However, it is easy to fake surprise, but what people don't know is that faked surprise is easily recognizable.Surprise can be spotted by widened eyes and raised eyebrows.Also the mouth will open a little bit.Note that in a true expreion of surprise the eyebrows will be raised for le than a second.So if someone is acting surprised, but leaves their eyebrows lifted for more than a second, they are lying.3
