是接受现实，还是尝试改变美文
第1篇：是接受现实，还是尝试改变美文
是接受现实，还是尝试改变美文
“How did you do it, Dad? How have you managed to not take a drink for almost 20 years?” It took me almost 20 years to have the courage to even ask my father this very personal question. When Dad first quit drinking, the whole family was on pins and needles every time he got into a situation that, in the past, would have started him drinking again. For a few years we were afraid to bring it up for fear the drinking would begin again.
“I had this little poem that I would recite to myself at least four to five times a day,” was Dad’s reply to my 18-year-old unasked question. “The words were an instant relief and constant reminder to me that things were never so tough that I could not handle them,” Dad said. And then he shared the poem with me. The poem’s simple, yet profound words immediately became part of my daily routine as well.
About a month after this talk with my father, I received a gift in the mail from a friend of mine. It was a book of daily affirmations with one affirmation listed for each day of the year.
It has been my experience that when you get something with days of the year on it, you automatically turn to the page that lists your own birthday.
I hurriedly opened the book to November 10 to see what words of wisdom this book had in store for me. I did a double-take and tears of disbelief and appreciation rolled down my face. There, on my birthday, was the exact same poem that had helped my father for all these years! It is called the Serenity Prayer:
God, grant me the Serenity to accept the things I cannot change; the Courage to change the things I can; and the Wisdom to know the difference.
编者按：平静地接受那些不能改变的事情，勇敢地尝试能有所改观的事情，并智慧地辨析两者的差别。看清自己，努力尝试，便无悔此生。
第2篇：面对现实,接受现实,改变现实
面对现实，改变现实
历时一年的艰苦奋斗，今天所有的辛勤终于得到了结果。
今天中午，当我颤抖着双手按下“确定”，令我惊喜的成绩映入眼帘，此时，那彻夜未熄的台灯，那布满血丝的双眼，那濒临崩溃的泪水...都幻化成一杯苦涩而又香醇的咖啡以及品味过后那一抹欣慰的微笑。
高考前100天我来到精华学校，由于专业课的需要，我荒废了近一年文化课，此时再拿起笔，写字都变得很僵硬，更别说捡起那些本来就漏洞百出的文化知识。我数学入学测试竟然得零分，连简单的集合运算我都忘得一干二净。看着数字越来越小的“高考计时牌”和校考合格证，我一时很迷茫，我不知道我能做什么能改变我的现状。可事实就摆在眼前，无论我接受与否。此时的现实我改变不了，那我只有面对现实。
我开始抛开其他杂念专心从头学习文化课。我发现老师会为我们提供一些“非常规”的学习方法针对我们基础欠缺或没有基础可言的艺考生，这些可以使我们在短时间内“事半功倍”。好的学习方法有了，就需要课下落实。对于文科生而言，大篇需要记忆的知识点使我很头疼，而我又恰恰在这方面有所欠缺，就需要更多的时间去反复巩固。在这一方面，无论是谁都没有技巧可言，只能按部就班一个字一个字地“刻”在脑中。
100天转瞬即逝，高考如期而至。即使坐在考场上，我也没有像其它普通学生一样把知识点运用的如鱼得水，而我能做的，就是在我能力范围内，发挥我的最好水平。
最后我的数学成绩是110分，它相对于刚入学的零，见证了我的成长与进步，见证了一个质的飞跃，也见证了我在改变现实的过程中，所付出的汗水。
面对现实，面对初始的零，然后从零开始，一步一步改变现实，实现高考梦想！
第3篇：接受还是改变范文（18篇）
持续不懈的努力会带来丰硕的成果。在写总结时，可以参考一些相关的范文和案例。大自然是一本巨大的教科书，我们可以从中学到很多人生智慧。
接受还是改变篇一
很多时候，我们都喜欢设想，假如自己长得再漂亮一点，假如自己再高一点，假如自己再聪明一点，等等。
但是，人生不过是一场单程车票，所有走过的、经历过的都成为不可更改的事实和历史，所有欢欣的、悲伤的，无论你愿不愿意接受，都成为生活的真相，且成为不可更改的历史和事实。
一位很有名气的心理学教师，一天给学生上课时拿出一只十分精美的咖啡杯。当学生们正在赞美这只杯子的独特造型时，教师故意装出失手的样子，咖啡杯掉在地板上成了碎片，教师指着咖啡杯的碎片说：“你们一定为这只杯子感到惋惜，可是这种惋惜也无法使咖啡杯再恢复到原来的样子，今后在你们生活中发生了无可挽回的事时，请记住这破碎的咖啡杯。”
这是一堂很成功的素质教育课，学生通过摔碎的咖啡杯懂得了：人在无法改变失败和不幸的厄运时，要学会接受它。
在现代社会中，竞争日益激烈，失败和意外随时都会发生，那么这个时候，我们又该如何
